Ruth and DT
Ruth and DT seated together beside the ocean

Ruth and DT are getting married

Join us as we become one before God, surrounded by our closest family and friends

We are so happy to gather with you in Costa Mesa. This is your place for the plans, the places, and everything you need for the weekend.

Ruth smiling beside DT on a picnic blanket

Save the date

Saturday
January 2

2027 · Southern California

Ceremony1 pm - 2 pm

Gloria Dei Lutheran Church33501 Stonehill Dr, Dana Point, CA 92629

Cocktail Hour5 pm - 6 pm
Reception6 pm - 10 pm

Fete the Venue3101 Red Hill Ave, Costa Mesa, CA 92626

Attire

Formal

Ruth and DT running hand in hand toward the ocean

Travel

Pacific air,
warm company.

Hotel blocks, airport guidance, and local recommendations can be found here.

Ruth and DT sitting together on the beach

What Marriage Means to Us

Ruth

Marriage is the strongest commitment any two people on this earth can make to one another. God intended for marriage to be a reflection of His love of the church. Unyielding, everlasting, sacrificial. I think marriage is less about love and more about choice and commitment. When I seek wisdom from those in my life whose marriages have endured and stood the test of time, their answers echo the same sentiment: marriage is hard, you have to work hard at it, and most importantly, trust in God.

DT and I are not perfect and we will never be perfect, but marriage is when two imperfect people come together to form a more perfect union (haha) to bear fruit for their community.

I’m grateful to all the family and friends for supporting us to this point and I hope will continue to support us on this long, arduous, but joyful journey ahead. And I am deeply grateful to have a wonderful, strong and sweet man like DT in my life as my partner.

So as I bid adieu to singledom, and step forward into this more perfect union, I want to reflect on two of my favorite proverbs:

Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall

Proverbs 16:18

A journey of a thousand li, begins with a single step.

Lao Tzu

Kindly respond by October 1, 2026

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Registry

Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift of all. Since we are blessed to start our lives with a fully set-up home, there is no official registry gift list. If you wish to give a token of congratulations, contributions toward our dream honeymoon or first home would mean the world to us.

Ruth and DT walking together along the beach